Hoping your week went much smoother than mine. Ever hear of the saying "when it rains it pours?" Yup, that pretty much sums up my week. I started off with good intentions and a positive outlook on what I knew would be a difficult task (attending a funeral) however I got blind sided with time sensitive financial issues with Kaplan that had me running around like a chicken with no head. Sigh.
Suffice it to say I was not able to fully embrace this week's activities for the betterment of my health however below is what I grasped:
1. Complete the Meeting Aesculapius and describe your meditative practices for the
week and discuss the experience.
I listened to the clip on meeting Aesclepius several times
today. The flute and the sounds of the waves should be in the entire clip to
remain in a relaxed state. I felt as though I did not enjoy this session as much as the one that focuses on just my breathing. I began to lose focus on the exercise pretty early on and just could not get myself to settle down.
I can understand the three phases of the mind where at first
our mind is described like a waterfall, downing in continuous thoughts, to a stiller
mind as represented by a fast paced mountain stream, and finally as calm as
fiords and bays.
The only thing that I have changed is, being alert to
focused breathing, repeating positive thoughts and being alert when a thought,
feeling or image enters, and then making a conscious choice whether to dwell on
the thought or just let it dissipate are return to exercise.
I can not say that I felt any new compassion, wisdom, or open heat. I am not discouraged and will continue to practice until I see things unfold and perhaps do as suggested by finding a mentor (or two) to assist me in excelling in spiritual growth pattern.
Explain how mindfulness or meditation has fostered an
increase in your psychological or spiritual wellness.
In that regard, I am stilling the mind and at
the same time being my own eye witness to these experiences. Thus far, I
achieve small steps in attempting to have a calm-abiding mind allowing me to
experience a inner peace. I have put these experiments into my daily routine
when I commute to and from work minus the radio
How
can you continue to apply these practices in your life to foster greater health
and wellness?
I will continue to implement these practices everywhere, my next
job, in a meeting, commuting to all my doctor appointments or my daughter's school, when I am doing mundane tasks,
household chores, mowing and tending the garden, at the same time will
transform these seemingly meaningless tasks into a deeper meaning of service
radiating compassion.
2. Describe the saying: "One cannot lead another where one has not gone
himself" (p.477).
I probably shouldn't be preaching to others about what it
takes to have a healthy mind, body and spirit if I don't follow my own
advice. I do believe that I have an obligation to my clients to be
developing my health psychologically, physically, and spiritually because that
is a good way to give the best advice possible. I want to know firsthand
what it is that I am telling my patients about what is good for them. I
plan to continue the meditation exercises, yoga and practicing loving-kindness
to everyone person that crosses my path. In other words, if you have never
experienced personal growth, and a deeper understanding of how all phases of
the human experience affect individuals how can you expect to show others. One
must experience their own spiritual transformation, improve their coping
skills, and find an outlet so their health, happiness, and wholeness becomes
complete.
3. How does this apply to the health and wellness professional?
Healthcare
professionals day in and day out hear the ailments of others repetitiously.
Their own health may be at risk if they do not take ownership of fostering
spiritual growth.
Do you have an obligation to your clients to be developing your health psychologically, physically, and spiritually?
Do you have an obligation to your clients to be developing your health psychologically, physically, and spiritually?
Absolutely, if you are not in the
best of health, your clients will soon lose faith in your ability to minimize
their pain and suffering.
How can you implement psychological and spiritual growth in your personal life?
How can you implement psychological and spiritual growth in your personal life?
Dacher supplied a few contemplative exercises that we can partake in at any
time. Through perseverance, practice, frustration, ridicule and whatever falls
into your path, one can successfully develop psychospiritual quadrant. As I mentioned earlier, I make the time to practice while driving to my appointments and my daughter's school, and
mowing the yard. Next on the agenda is transferring this to cleaning out my house to the point where I can apply this to my daily chores (hoping to decrease it to weekly...or maybe once a month).
Peace & Blessings
T.
Hello Teddi,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your blog and all the information that you posted about your meditation experience and also how your week has been going. I too had a very tough week and just cannot seem to kick it. I too started off with a positive attitude and things just kept overwhelming me and no amount of meditation or yoga seemed to have any long term positive affects as it normally does, but it did help a little. I too, was having issues with Kaplan and still need to get some things into them. Uhh, thanks for the reminder. I think that the goals that you have set for yourself sound very great and attainable. I am sending you positive thoughts and prayers and I hope that you have a much smoother week ahead.
-Megan Bohlman
Hi Megan! Thanks for taking the time out to read my blog and respond. I would like to get to a point where I do not allow LIFE to interrupt my practice to become healthier physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. I have to admit that by Friday of last week I just caved. I did try to push those negative thoughts out of my mind and replace it with kind thoughts however it just did not stick around long enough. I am sorry to hear that you too had a rough week. Although your usual routine did not have long term effects you mentioned that it did help a little. That is better than nothing. I think the more we put into practice the longer it will stay with us. Not sure it will become easier but I do think the results will be there :-) I appreciate the positive thoughts and prayers and I will do the same for you and wish that this week is "uneventful" in the areas of obstacles!
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T.
Hello Teddi,
ReplyDeleteI love your post and I must agree with you when it comes to serving others. I deal with little patients daily and if I am not mental prepared to assist them with my focus, energy, and patience, they will react to the way I am feeling; which causes a domino effect. The child is not happy, the parents are not happy, the clinicians are not happy and I am not happy. Great Blog!
Hi Rosalyne, thanks for your response and for sharing! I know what you mean about when your head is not clear. I had much anxiety last week and found myself snapping at my daughter. She even had to point it out to me. I do not know how many times I apologized for my outbursts. She could feel the tension and lack of focus and you are so correct it just trickled down to her. We had a little pow pow and we regrouped and re-energized and we spoke positive words out into the universe LOUDLY until it was repeated in our minds. By the end we were laughing and smiling and we were not as tense. I refuse to dwell on things that I can not control. Sure it may knock me to my knees but I will stay down.
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T.